| Location | Skegness |
| Age | 47 years |
| Cause of Death | Virus |
| Date of Birth | 20/06/1961 |
| Date of Death | 13/05/2009 |
| Visitors | 992 since 20/06/2009 |
| Creator |
Brian Sartain xxxxxx he became ill on the 1st of may he went to Skegness A & E with a chest infection then he was taken to Louth hospital to be kept in to go on oxygen.
but that night he had a fall and also a fit from then he was in a sedated coma then he was taken to Lincoln hospital the next day which was the 2nd of may
He was put on to a ward but he was closely monitored by the intensive care unit but things kept going down hill so the intensive care team took him to there unit and put him on a life support machine which he was there for two weeks before we find out what was the matter with him
in the end it was simplex encaphalitus of the brain and also a stroke
the doctors called my mum and said they need to see her
so she went to the hospital to find out the horrible news we didn't want to here the doctors said there was no hope for Brain and it was there choice to turn the life support machine off when they turned it of i was there with him it was around bout 9 pm on the 12th of may
Brian fought for 16 hrs it was like he was holding on for something
but at 1.21pm on the 13th of may he stopped fighting and passed away with me and my mum by his side
Brian xxxxxxxx
FULL CIRCLE
You walked through my world;
In this dance we call life,
Dancing with me in joy,
Dancing with me in strife.
You gave me the song,
And gave me the chance;
To learn about love,
When you taught me to dance.
It was not just the music,
Nor the steps that we made;
But is now in sweet memories,
That never will fade.
For love was your music,
And life was your song;
You taught me the dance,
And how to be strong.
You showed me what love was,
Even in your goodbye;
Now we've come full circle,
In this dance we call life.
So, dance with the angels,
And may you find rest;
Your song's in my heart,
And my life, fully blessed.
Allison Chambers Coxsey
©2003
And if I go,
while you're still here...
Know that I live on,
vibrating to a different measure
--behind a thin veil you cannot see through.
You will not see me,
so you must have faith.
I wait for the time when we can soar together again,
--both aware of each other.
Until then, live your life to its fullest.
And when you need me,
Just whisper my name in your heart,
...I will be there.
Posted with Author’s Permission. Ascension ©1987
Brian xxxxxxxxx rest peacefully xxxxxxxx
Weep not for me
now that I have passed.
Remember the laughter, the affection
and the joy
not just the recent tears.
Cherish the memories,
our hopes and dreams.
Hold fast to the love that we shared.
Be happy with the time we spent together
and being anew.
For I am not really gone,
I am closer than ever before.
As the morning sun rises
and throughout the busy day...I am with you.
Until the setting sun disappears on the horizon
and we watch the day turn into night...I am here.
You may feel a faint breeze stir round your head, while you slumber
as I gently kiss your forehead, "Good night."
The stars that shine so brightly in my heavenly sky
help me watch over you and keep you from harm.
I am the wind in the trees
and the song of a bird.
I am moonbeams in a midnight sky
and a glorious rainbow after the storm.
I am morning dew
and freshly-fallen snow.
I am a butterfly flying overhead
and a puppy happily at play.
I am a smile on a stranger's face
a gentle touch
a warm embrace.
Listen to the wind for my message of love.
Watch the sun rise and set in the sky with me.
Feel my essence encircle you with warm memories.
Open your heart to know...I am not gone.
Reach deep into your soul...You will find me.
I am here.
Have no fear.
I am with you,
Always.
? 1998 Kirsti A. Dyer
BRIAN XXxx
Weep not for me
now that I have passed.
Remember the laughter, the affection
and the joy
not just the recent tears.
Cherish the memories,
our hopes and dreams.
Hold fast to the love that we shared.
Be happy with the time we spent together
and being anew.
For I am not really gone,
I am closer than ever before.
As the morning sun rises
and throughout the busy day...I am with you.
Until the setting sun disappears on the horizon
and we watch the day turn into night...I am here.
You may feel a faint breeze stir round your head, while you slumber
as I gently kiss your forehead, "Good night."
The stars that shine so brightly in my heavenly sky
help me watch over you and keep you from harm.
I am the wind in the trees
and the song of a bird.
I am moonbeams in a midnight sky
and a glorious rainbow after the storm.
I am morning dew
and freshly-fallen snow.
I am a butterfly flying overhead
and a puppy happily at play.
I am a smile on a stranger's face
a gentle touch
a warm embrace.
Listen to the wind for my message of love.
Watch the sun rise and set in the sky with me.
Feel my essence encircle you with warm memories.
Open your heart to know...I am not gone.
Reach deep into your soul...You will find me.
I am here.
Have no fear.
I am with you,
Always.
© 1998 Kirsti A. Dyer
(Angel scribe)
Gates of Gold
by
Joyce Hemsley
As he was sleeping in his bed,
he heard an angel say
"come oh come to Heaven,
come hither, thou, today."
So he travelled through the tunnel
till a bright light he could see,
again he heard the angel saying
"come hither thou with me."
He came upon a heavenly land
where milk and honey flow,
and he met the folk he loved
from many years ago.
And the music swelled about him,
minuets and choruses grand,
and he saw the great composers
resting in this wonderland.
Choirs of angels songs were singing,
words of happiness they told;
he was with a band of angels
stepping through The Gates of Gold.
Gone But Not Forgotten
© Cecilia M. Kocher
The years we've shared have been full of joy.
The memories we've made will go on and on.
I haven't stopped crying since you went away,
and I've asked God time and time why couldn't you stay.
You lit up my life, my hopes, and my dreams.
You've opened my eyes to see what it all means.
So now that you're gone how can I forget;
Because you were the greatest out of all I have met.
dear brian
its so sad that we never met u but now that you are gone i just wanted to tell you that you would of been a great grandad for my daughter lilly may and uour other grandaughter sophie and you were so lucky to have an amazin two boys brian and my future husband danny and your daughter jess RIP xxx
I Do Believe
by Jennifer Janiszewski
There is nothing i can do,
to make him come back
There are no words I can say,
that can replace the words you long to hear
There are no answer's I can give,
that will satisfy your questions
There is not another soul I can introduce you to that will ever replace his
And, there is no love I can offer that will ever replace the love you shared
I can not promise your broken heart will ever be complete
I will not say it could have been worse
I will not deny it was a tragedy
I will not lie and tell you he will come back
He never really left
I do promise he hears you when you speak
I will say he loves you no matter the distance
I will not deny he is in a better place
And, I will not lie; he is waiting to greet you someday
He is every you step you take
He is in everything you do
He is the air you breathe
He is every beat of your heart
" He is like the wind. You can not see him...but you will always feel him"
Brian
Words and music by bob seger
Take away my inhibitions
Take away my solitude
Fire me up with your resistance
Put me in the mood
Storm the walls around this prison
Leave the inmates
Free the guards
Deal me up another future
From some brand new deck of cards
Take the chip off of my shoulder
Smooth out all the lines
Take me out among the rustling pines
Till it shines
Like an echo down a canyon
Never coming back as clear
Lately I just judge the distance
Not the words I hear
Ive been too long on these islands
Ive been far too long alone
Ive been too long without summer
In this winter home
Still if we can make the effort
If we take the time
Maybe we can leave this much behind
Till it shines
See the rich man lost and lonely
Watch him as he dines
Sitting there just testing all the wines
Till it shines
Butterflies
Butterflies delicate,
butterflies blue,
butterflies still
remind me of you.
We are here for a while,
then we are gone,
but not forgotten,
for we will be changed
into something more beautiful.
Like the butterfly,
we do not really die,
but shed only
our outer shell.
We then become
even more radiant,
when in our glory,
with Him we shall dwell.
So my child do not grieve,
when I say goodbye,
for to the child of God,
death has no sting.
For we are transformed
into new creatures,
in garments of white.
While singing His praises,
we are filled with His Light.
~© Melba T.~
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